IT'S DAY 90

 DAY 90

It's day 90
They say you see progress after 90 days 
Be it working out or healing a broken heart
But I can still feel the overwhelming consuming pain
It's day 90, why do I feel like it's been 9 years progressing at rate 0? 

I was scrolling through my phone ,
I met the quote
"We are captives of our own identities, living in prisons of our own creation ."
It reminded me of you 
It was the first intimate conversation we had 
It's day 90, why do I still remember our first conversation??

Funny,it was part of our last conversation
You said your life was complicated 
I knew you were about to break me when you said you never intended to hurt me ,
Because you did not mean to break my heart ,
Doesn't mean I don't feel the pain of my soul crashing
The weight of my whole being bowing with burden
For 90 days ,I have thought ,
About the complication you created and called your life.
And worse,how you dragged me into it 
It's day 90, why am I still captive in your prison? 
Why ?

It's day 90,
You text that you miss me ,
Why am I the girl you text at 2 am saying you're better of with ,
Knowing very well ,
I wasn't your first choice 
Was I even ever ?
It's day 90, why am I still questioning?

You say you miss me ?
Glad we can still be on the same page 
I've missed me since the day you broke my heart
It's day 90, why am I still hurting ??

By Favor khaoya

Comments

  1. Unknown27 November 2021 at 11:18

    🥺🥺🥺honey we are on the same page. I can feel your words to the vibes😭

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